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Thursday, January 7, 2010
I Mostly Agree with Albert EinsteinI'm no Einstein, but I did major in geophysics (and journalism) during college, hence the bachelor of
"science" degree. Still, I'm no Einstein. But I remember something interesting in all that I learned.
With your eyes closed, it's hard for the human mind to distinguish between being touched with a block of ice or with
a block of really hot metal. This inability only lasts for a moment or two because eventually the heat causes blisters
to appear and the cold will stop the blood circulation.
I mention this little piece of scientific trivia because
I very often wear nothing more than a short-sleeved shirt outside during the coldest of days. People always ask
me if I'm cold and I always say it beats being hot. However, just like the physics lesson above, I wouldn't want
to stay out in the cold without proper clothing for an extended period of time.
Here's another example of
relativity in action. For a one-hour period, would you rather be really starved for food or really stuffed
with food to the point of being uncomfortable? Again, this only becomes a 50/50 answer when we're talking about short
periods of time. I wouldn't want to starve for a week, but I could be uncomfortable with too much food in my stomach
for that amount of time -- and I often am!
My mother taught me "relativity" when I was young
and wouldn't eat everything on my plate. "Think about all the starving kids in India," she'd say.
Actually, I didn't much care about anyone starving anywhere in the world. I just wanted to get up from the dinner
table and play.
Albert Einstein nailed the theory of relativity by concluding that the laws of physics appear
to be the same no matter what your frame of reference. For example, if I'm traveling at about the speed
of light, I would never know it. In fact, it would look to me like I was standing still.
For example, think
about flying in plane at 500 miles an hour from Washington, DC to New York. When you look out the window of
the plane, it just doesn't seem like your moving at 500 miles an hour. Actually, if there are no clouds for reference,
it almost seems like you're not moving at all. Yet, the laws of physics are still the same. Maybe the plane
is not moving, but the Earth is moving at 500 miles an hour in the opposite direction. Or, if someone looked
at the plane from outer space, it might look like the plane is standing still and the Earth is rotating in
the opposite direction. Why? Because the plane's speed at that latitude is about the same speed as the rotation
of the Earth.
Do you agree with Einstein, as well? I figured you would.
11:37 am est
Monday, January 4, 2010
Happy Wedding SeasonFor many people,
January kicks off a brand new year. For brides and grooms, it's not only important to come up with a New Year's Resolution.
It's also the beginning of "Wedding Season" - a time when happy, but sometimes anxious couples start preparing for
the ceremony and celebration of matrimony.
According to a number of wedding professionals, 2010 is expected to
bring a resurgence of brides and grooms who will start planning for the weddings they postponed during 2009 because of an
ailing economy.
Wedding planners, photographers, videographers, caterers, hotels, officiants, travel agencies and
musicians are eagerly promoting their products and services for the expected flock of newlyweds ready to launch themselves
into marital orbit.
Thousands of web sites have sprung up during the last decade, with more coming every day, to
help these couples prepare for their journey together. The sites offer helpful suggestions and resources for couples who don't
know where to begin, or who need help with writing their wedding vows, or who are looking for information about marriage licenses.
For the most part, brides and grooms first tackle the challenge of developing a budget for their event. After
the initial shock of how much it will all cost, the next focus is on logistics -- where to hold the wedding and reception,
getting the caterer lined up, creating the guest list, and printing invitations.
Couples then start searching for
photographers and videographers to record the special day. Everything runs smoothly for a few months until someone reminds
them about getting music for the wedding and reception.
The search for music starts with deciding what kind of
music couples want to hear at their wedding and reception. Next, the two eager people agree on whether the music should be
provided by an orchestra, live band, DJ, or a "one-man band."
Once all these decisions have been made,
the search is on for a musician to provide music for one of the most important days of the couple's lives. However, there
is some concern about cost. I don't think most couples realize the broad range of rates for a variety of musicians. The
cost can be from a few hundred dollars to more than $10,000.
The amount of money couples are willing to spend on
all aspects of their wedding are not declining despite the economic downturn, according to a number of other local wedding
planners in the Washington, DC area. Instead, today's average cost for a traditional wedding with 200 guests is approximately
$25,000. And that doesn't include costs associated with the honeymoon which averages $3,500 for one week.
So what's
the New Year's Resolution for all of those couples who became engaged during December? I believe it's "Let's get
this party started!"
8:27 am est
Saturday, January 2, 2010
New York City State of MindToday, I'm visiting my daughter who lives in New York City on the East Side. Thank goodness I gave her a piano keyboard
for Christmas, so now I have something to play while I'm here. She's actually a better pianist than I because she pays
attention to the details of the music. She actually follows the musical notes, whereas I tend to jump from musical phrase
to phrase. No details for me. I'm a big-picture musician. I don't like to get bogged down with the minor
differences in major chords versus augmented fifths. I don't even know what it all means. I remember my first
formal piano lesson when I told the instructor that I just wanted to improvise playing the piano a little bit better than
I had been doing for most of my life. "Don't you want to learn how to play the notes correctly," he asked.
Nope. I don't have the time or patience to learn how to play. Just teach me some new techniques or shortcuts so
I can sound a little better than I do now. I don't want to "work," I want to play.
My work
ethic is certainly a critical factor in my success, but I only work hard when I'm having fun. And if I'm not having
fun, then I don't work so hard. So, I've always tried to find work that makes me smile. I'e always looked for
work that isn't work, but seems more like play. I've been so lucky for most of my life because I've mostly had
fun.
It's almost two days into the new year and I hope you're having fun, too. Life is really too short to
not have fun in almost everything we do. And while it's not always possible to have fun all of the time, it is possble
-- I believe -- to be in a happy state of mind. My wish for you is to have as much fun as humanly possible. Listen
to the music in your mind and let it fill you with joy. And when the music in your heart becomes the blues, feel the
rythmn of its cry and keep on dancing to the end. You are not alone.
4:47 pm est
Friday, January 1, 2010
"Auld Lang Syne" by Robert Burns Should auld acquaintance be forgot, And never brought to mind? Should auld acquaintance be forgot, And auld lang syne?
For auld lang syne,
my dear, For auld lang syne, We'll tak a cup o' kindness yet, For auld lang syne.
And surely ye'll
be your pint-stowp, And surely I'll be mine! And we'll tak a cup o' kindness yet, For auld lang syne.
For auld lang syne, my dear, For auld lang syne, We'll tak a cup o' kindness yet, For auld lang syne.
We twa hae run about the braes, And pu'd the gowans fine; But we've wandered mony a weary fit Sin'
auld lang syne.
For auld lang syne, my dear, For auld lang syne, We'll tak a cup o' kindness yet, For auld lang syne.
We twa hae paidled i' the burn, Frae morning sun till dine; But seas between us
braid hae roared Sin' auld lang syne.
For auld lang syne, my dear, For auld lang syne, We'll tak
a cup o' kindness yet, For auld lang syne.
And there's a hand, my trusty fiere, And gie's a hand o' thine! And we'll tak a right guid-willie waught
For auld lang syne.
For auld lang syne, my dear, For
auld lang syne, We'll tak a cup o' kindness yet, For auld lang syne.
9:28 am est
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